Makan Oh Makan !!!

Assalammualaikum..

Alhamdulillah...bertemu kita sekali lagi di alam maya ini. Sejak kebelakangan ini, ana di serang dengan masalah negara. Hah..mungkin ligat di pemikiran kamu, apakah masalah negara yang ana hadapi. "Apabila x makan je...lapar bertandang namun apabila kita makan pula..rasa kenyang mula menerpa tiba". Itulah masalah negara yang tidak pernah selesai. Itu jugalah ungkapan yang di berikan oleh ibunda ana kepada ana selasai menghadiri majlis makan malam bersama keluarga. Berderai ketawa ana keluar apabila ungkapan itu singgah ke cuping telinga ana.

Apabila sebut je pasal makanan, kelenjar air liur kita mula beroperasi menghasilkan air liur sepantas mendapat isyarat daripada hypothalamus. Dengan membayangkan imej makanan sahaja, manusia sudah tidak tertahan menelannya. Begitu berpengaruh makanan ini kepada manusia.Ada juga segelintir manusia mengeluarkan moto hidup mereka dengan "hidup untuk makan" & "makan untuk hidup". Ana tidak pasti di mana sahihnya moto mereka ini.

Oleh kerana manusia tidak mengawal makanan jugalah, banyak penyakit mendampingi susuk tubuh mereka. Makan oh makan !!

Akan tetapi bila sebut pasal makan,..semua suka. Asalkan perut kembung tali kecapi, apa yang singgah ke mulut pasti di sukai. Ana di antara pencinta makanan..Apabila deria rasa di kurniakan kepada manusia untuk merasai nikmat kelazatan, manusia sering alpa dengan tanggungjawab masing2. Sukar untuk menemui hamba Allah yang menjaga pemakanan. Yakin dengan 10 generasi pengeluaran makanan.



Manusia yang di kasihi sekalian, ikutilah sunah Nabi Muhammad s.a.w tentang etika ketika makan...ini kerana Nabi Muhammad SAW pernah bersabda;"Barang siapa yang mengikuti sunahku, bererti dia cinta kepadaku. Dan barang siapa yang cinta kepadaku, maka akan masuk syurga bersamaku".

Jika kamu lupa akan sunah Nabi kita tentang etika ketika makan, janganlah kamu kuatiri...ini kerana ana di sini mahu berkongsi dengan kamu.

1-MULAKAN DENGAN ”BISMILLAH”
Nabi SAW apabila makan dan minum pasti memulakan dengan menyebut nama Allah. Perbuatan itu bukan sekadar dilakukan oleh baginda SAW sendiri, malahan dipesan agar dilakukan oleh orang lain.

2-TANGAN KANAN
Ketika makan, disunatkan makan dilakukan menggunakan tangan kanan. Kekanan dalam semua perkara merupakan amalan terpuji, bahkan ia merupakan amalan orang-orang yang soleh, bertaqwa kepada Allah SWT.

3-TIDAK MINUM BERDIRI
Berdiri ketika minum, menandakan kurang adab ketika minum.

4-TIDAK GUNA BEKAS EMAS DAN PERAK
Bukan sekadar kurang adab, malahan merupakan satu dosa apabila seseorang itu minum dan makan dengan menggunakan bekas daripada emas dan perak. Tindakan menggunakan emas dan perak ketika makan dan minum merupakan kesombongan walhal sifat sombong ini tidak layak wujud pada manusia.

5-TIDAK CELA MAKANAN

6-TIDAK MAKAN BANYAK
Nabi SAW tidak pernah makan banyak seperti kita. Jika kita makan kadangkala mengjangkaui kekenyangan teramat sangat, sehingga bersedawa 3 hingga 5 kali. Perbuatan tersebut tidak disukai oleh Nabi SAW. Kita di galakkan makan ketika terasa lapar dan berhenti makan sebelum kenyang.(makanlah kamu berpada-pada,tidak terlalu lapar dan tidak terlalu kenyang)

7-MAKAN BERJEMAAH
Berjemaah merupakan tuntutan. Ia kerana, berjemaah mewujudkan saling bantu membantu. Apabila wujud seorang yang susah pasti dengan berjemaah seorang kawan yang lain pasti akan membantu. Apabila keadaan ini berlaku, sebarang kesulitan dapat diselesaikan dengan baik. Disebalik kebaikkan berjemaah ini wujud juga keberkatan disebalik kita berjemaah. Berkat diterjemah sebagai “zat” jika dinisbahkan kepada makanan.

Semoga dengan adanya perkongsian ana ini dapat di manfaatkan bersama...InsyaAllah.

A story of appreciation....

Assalammualaikum..

p/s: kisah ini amat menyentuh perasaan ana di saat lembaran kertas yang mencoretkan kisah ini sampai ke tangan ana..semoga kisah ini dapat memuhasabahkan diri kita...insyaAllah..



One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company. He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision. The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.

The director asked, “Did you obtain any scholarships in school?” the youth answered “none”. The director asked, “Was it your father who paid for your school fees?’’ The youth answered, “My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.

The director asked, “Where did your mother work?” The youth answered, “My mother worked as clothes cleaner”. The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of his hands that were smooth and perfect.

The director asked, “Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?” The youth answered, “Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.

The director said, “I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother’s hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.”

The youth felt that his chance of landing the jobs was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid.

The youth cleaned his mother’s hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother’s hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.

This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother’s hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.

After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director’s office.

The director noticed the tears in the youth’s eyes, asked: “can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?”

The youth answered, “I cleaned my mother’s hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes”. The director asked, “Please tell me your feelings”.

The youth said,

Number 1, I know now what appreciation is. Without my mother, there would not the successful me today.

Number 2, by working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done.

Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.

The director said, “This is what I am looking for to be my manager. I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.”

Later on, this youth person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company’s performance improved tremendously.

A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop “entitlement mentality” and would always put him self first. He would be ignorant of his parent’s efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents . Are we really showing love or are we destroying the kids instead?..

You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair grow gray, same as the mother of the young person.

The most importance thing is your kids learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done. !!

Sejarah Semalam..

Assalammualaikum...

Salam bertemu kembali..

Detik berganti saat,..

saat berganti minit,..

minit berganti jam,..

jam berganti hari,..

hari berganti minggu,..

minggu berganti bulan,..

bulan berganti tahun,..

Setiap kali nafas di hembuskan, setiap kali mata berkelip dan setiap kali jantung berdetak,..ia membiarkan waktu berlalu pergi..

Setiap insan mempunyai sejarah silam yang terpatrit dalam kotak ingatan biarpun ia 'pahit bak hempedu mahupun manis bak madu'. Namun begitu, adakah ianya sama seperti sejarah kebangkitan Melaka...tak pasal-pasal sejarah melaka terbabit kat sini..hehe hanya diri sendiri sahaja yang tahu menilai sejarah masing2..

Ana juga mempunyai sejarah silam namun ianya seperti baru semalam berlaku. Sejarah tidak mungkin akan berulang namun kebarangkaliannya pasti ada.

..sejarah semalam..

Sejarah zaman kanak2 tidak dapat di kembalikan lagi, kita hanya mampu mengimbau kembali sejarah itu dengan senyuman mahupun tangisan. Seperti ana, zaman kanak2 ana sungguh menyeronokkan tetapi ada juga masanya yang tidak begitu menyeronokkan. Ketika itu, hidup ana di kawal dengan "rotan". Hahaha..tentu kamu tidak asing sekali dengan rotan semasa kamu kanak2 kan. Bila nampak je rotan di keluarkan, masing2 lintang pukang melarikan diri daripadanya. Sudah pasti ada kesalahan yang ana lakukan pada waktu itu. 

Bila di ingatkan kembali, ana tersenyum sendirian. Ada hikmahnya dengan rotan itu, jika tidak, ana tidak berjaya sampai ke tahap ini. Terima kasih ayah & mama ana yang sangat perihatin , sangat kasih dan sangat pandai membimbing anak2 nya..Kasih keluarga tidak padam sampai bila2.

Namun begitu, ramai ibubapa di luar sana telah menyalahgunakan kuasa membimbing mereka kepada anak2 mereka. Mereka tegar untuk mendera anak2 mereka sampai separuh nyawa. Tidak adakah sifat kasih kepada anak2 mereka itu??..Sungguh tidak bertanggungjawab..

Ana sangat sukakan keluarga ana..sejarah ana adalah hidup ana..

Siapa tahu mungkin kita akan di beri peluang untuk kedua kalinya merasai pengalaman sejarah masing2...hehe.. Who knows !!